pregnancy

[padnar]

Kelly
As a woman your story touches me
as a westner where all are independent
 i can never understand how such thinks happen
first thing i would like you is to practisr relaxation techniques
Get up early and play a relaxation technique
and when you are deeply relaxed say just
these positive suggestions like
I am giving birth to a healthy baby
Fill your room with all these suggestions
certainly things will turn for the better
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[LloJo]

Kelly;
Yours is indeed a story of heartbreak. My heart breaks anytime I read a story of one so young subjected to the necessity of birth control, before they even properly reach the age of puberty. Why are young people driven to sexual encounters at such a young age? I am not prudish enough, or naive enough, to believe all sexual activity has to be within the hallowed grounds of matrimony, but one should certainly be old enough to understand what sex is all about. At age 77, I'm still learning. At your age, schooling should be your primary objective. There is an entire lifetime ahead of you to learn sexuality.
You are to be commended for not leaping into a sexual encounter without first securing birth control, but even the best is not foolproof. Lives have been ruined by unwanted pregnancies, not the least of which is the life of the child. I, myself, am the result of a love affair between a seventeen year old man and a sixteen year old girl, so I know whereof I speak. My father and mother both married someone else, and I bounced between the two families, never really belonging to either. I was also severely abused by both step parents. I ran away at an early age, and have never gone back.
I sincerely hope your early encounters with birth control have not damaged you physically, as some of the symptoms you exhibit would indicate. There's an old saying, "It's not nice to fool Mother Nature."
That your education could be improved is beyond question. There are over 100 grammatical and spelling errors in your post. I think it's a matter of getting your priorities in proper order.
Best wishes for a bright future.

[kelly]

I been trying to get pregnant and im having complications trying everything. Here is my history with different birth controls : (there is one thing that you need to know im 22 years old and engaged.)
well the first birth control i was on was the pill , i was on that for 2 years when i was between the ages 15-16. then i was on depovera shot for 4 years when i was between the ages 17-20 . i had no insurance these couple years and still dont right now.im actually working on it . well anyways when i turned 21 i was having problems with adnormal bleeding; like i would bleed for weeks even sometimes mths. then i was told to go to the clinic to get checked and when i went they said everything was okay but, gave another birthcontrol and it was some type of pill . I took that for a few mths. and couldnt stay on it because it made me bleed adnormal and even worse . it was to the point i was in and of hospitals with pain and cramps constantly and light headed and naushious and several times my blood count would drop with the amount of blood i lost some times. so i stopped all birthcontrols immediately. it was to much stress with that so i took control and said no more . and i been trying to get my body regulated and its just been hard and im stuck and dont know what to do to put  me on track again , or will i not be on track again. i dont know what to do? And i been trying to have a baby and its just been stressful and i dont know if im pregnant because every test i take its either broken (the ones at the store) or i go to ER and im not and none of the doctors have answers for me . Even though the amount of times i been there for the bleeding they always diagnose me with strong UTI's or bladder infections or hematura (Hemrigen) or possible miscarriages , ect. i dont know what to do ? yes one more thing you also need to know about past issues in my life : when i was alittle girl I was raped and milested by my uncle and cousin and then when i was about 15 through 18 i was beaten by my ex he was an alcholic and ect. and then when i got out of that i went through deppression and drugs and ect. but i got help and been good and still do counceling as well now. and in between everything i was held haustage and beaten and ganged raped and my friend that was with me that went through the same they killed her and i was found on side road by some one and rushed to the hospital and ect. went on from there .but im still getting treatment through barnabas rehap out patient on and off for those few inccidents. yes I will be 22 june 27th . and in the mid beginning of my 21st years i found some one respectful and some one i new when i was a young kid and even baby and good friends with family and we started dating and he showed me good things and helped me good and bad .and so far so good you know not perfect though because you know no one is perfect.so now that im moving on with life trying to make it better for me from everything i been through im just having alot of issues and problems with things i want now . I woud like to start a family and get married happilly and finish my schooling i been working on for my future career that i wanted for years and im not that old and now im still hear and getting better from my trauma that i lived growing up. basically I was just trying to see if you can help me and maybe give me some suggestions about medical . can i get pregnant again? ( i had 3 misscarriges and 2 abortions due to my past history trauma.) Every time i go to the doctors or GYN they tell me ill be okay and can get pregnant but im having lots of problems bleeding wise and ects. i do feel pregnant now but im spotting and bleeding not much though and i took a test and the test screen on both home pregnacy test didint work properly. and i dont get my period till normally the end of the month of each month and yes i hadnt have a normal period the past couple months though. so hers my life and what i have qu :-\estions on sorry its so long i just wanted you to understand where i come from.


                                                                                  Kelly